Am I Too Old for the Nightlife? A DJ's Journey from Shreveport to Nashville and Back
- DJ MAYHAM
- Jan 1
- 4 min read
Hey everyone, it's been a whirlwind few weeks since I moved back to Shreveport, Louisiana, after a stint in Nashville, Tennessee. As a 32-year-old DJ who's spent over a decade immersed in the nightlife scene, I've found myself pondering a question that hits harder than a bass drop at 3 a.m.: Am I too old for this? I don't feel old—far from it. But readjusting to the late-night hours here has me questioning if it's my age catching up or just the shock of coming home after being away. Let me break it down for you, based on my own experiences hopping between these two Southern cities.
The Glory Days in Shreveport: Partying Until Dawn
I first landed in Shreveport at 19 and called it home for 12 solid years. Back then, the city felt like a never-ending adventure, especially once I turned 21 and dove headfirst into the club scene. Shreveport's nightlife was legendary for its endurance—bars and clubs didn't shut down until 6 a.m. We'd hit the spots early in the evening, dance and vibe all night, and only call it quits when the sun was peeking over the horizon. After that? Straight to a greasy spoon diner for breakfast, laughing about the night's antics with friends. It was exhilarating, chaotic, and perfectly suited to my youthful energy. As a budding DJ, those marathon nights fueled my passion; I thrived on the crowd's energy keeping me going until the very end.
Looking back, it was the ultimate test of stamina. No early bedtimes here—Shreveport's scene demanded you commit fully, and at that age, I was all in.
The Nashville Shift: A More "Adult" Rhythm
A few years ago, life pulled me to Nashville, Tennessee, the heart of country music and a whole different vibe. The transition wasn't just geographical; it was a complete overhaul of my nightlife routine. In Nashville, bars typically close at 2 a.m., maybe stretching to 3 a.m. on a good night. At first, I missed the all-nighters from Shreveport—it felt like the party was ending just as it was getting good. But as I settled in and got older, those earlier closing times started to feel like a blessing.
With age came a bit more wisdom (or at least, a desire for better sleep). As a DJ, being home before sunrise meant I could actually function the next day—prepping sets, handling bookings, or just enjoying a normal-ish routine. Nashville's scene forced me to adapt, and honestly, it turned out perfect. I still got my fix of live music and crowds, but without the total exhaustion. It was like the city was gently nudging me toward a more balanced life, and I embraced it.
Back in Shreveport: 4 A.M. Closings and the Toll at 32
Fast-forward to now: I'm back in Shreveport after about three or four weeks, and things have changed here too. The closing times have dialed back a bit—most places wrap up around 4 a.m. these days, which is earlier than the old 6 a.m. marathons but still way later than Nashville's cutoff. I thought I'd slip right back into the groove, but man, it's hitting different at 32.
Staying out until 4 a.m. and then trying to drag myself out of bed at a decent hour the next morning? It's taxing on my body in ways it never used to be. The recovery time feels longer—sore muscles from dancing, foggy brain from lack of sleep, and that nagging sense that I should be prioritizing rest over another round of shots. As a DJ, gigs often run late, so it's not like I can just bow out early. But waking up feeling wrecked makes me wonder: Is this the infamous "getting old" everyone warns about?
The thing is, I don't feel old. I still love the energy of a packed club, the thrill of dropping the perfect track, and the camaraderie of night owls. Maybe it's not age at all—maybe it's just the adjustment period. I've only been back a short time, and my body's still calibrated to Nashville's earlier rhythm. Jet lag from a lifestyle shift, you know? Or perhaps it's a sign that priorities evolve: What fueled me at 21 doesn't have to define me at 32.
So, Am I Too Old? Or Just Evolving?
Here's the real talk: Age is just a number, but lifestyles have limits. If Shreveport's 4 a.m. closings are wearing me down, it might be time to tweak how I engage with the scene—maybe focus on earlier sets, prioritize recovery days, or even explore daytime gigs. I refuse to believe 32 is "too old" for nightlife; plenty of DJs and partygoers thrive well into their 40s and beyond. But if my body is sending signals, ignoring them won't do me any favors.
What about you? Have you ever moved cities and had to readjust your nightlife habits? Or hit an age where the late nights started feeling different? Drop your thoughts in the comments—let's chat about it. In the meantime, I'll be here in Shreveport, figuring out my new normal, one beat at a time.
Thanks for reading! If you're in the area, catch me at my next gig. Stay tuned for more stories from the decks. 🎧





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